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Sweet Personalized Photo Valentines

This is not a new idea (I’m not that clever), and I have come across a few different versions on Pinterest and just LOVED how they turned out so I decided to make my own.

I am THRILLED with the results and the boys had so much fun helping to make them.  They keep asking if it’s time to take them to school yet.  It is really very simple to create a fun, personalized and 3-D “ish” Valentine’s Day card for your kids’ classmates and even family.  Here is how I did mine:

Take the kids outside and have them make a fist.  Take a gazillion pictures trying to find a half-way decent one to use (what’s up with five year old’s making silly faces in every.single.picture!?).  I told my boys to pretend them were giving me a sucker so they would hold their hand correctly.

After I downloaded the pictures to my computer, I used Photoshop and Valentine’s heart brushes to decorate the image along with adding a personalized message.  If you don’t have a photo editing program, you can always manually add stickers and write your messages on the back.

Save your images at 4×6 with at least a 300dpi for photo printing and upload them to your favorite photo developer (I used CVS).

I was so excited to go pick them up!

With a sharp utility knife, carefully cut a slice above and below the outreached fist (adults should do this step!!).  It’s better to slice a little long because you can add a piece of tape to the back to hold the lollypop.  If you cut too small, than the photo might tear (learned from experience).  It didn’t take long to find the perfect length…about 1/2 an inch, where the lollypop doesn’t slide much yet the paper doesn’t tear.  Use your judgement, it will depend on the size of your suckers (we used DumDum’s).

My boys are seven and five and they were perfectly capable of threading the suckers through the paper.  So I cut, they threaded.  It was a fine assembly line.

Ta-Da!  That’s all there is to it.  Of course, Anthony now wants to add a personal message and a “To and From” on the backs…I wish I would have known that before I put lollypops on them all.  If you want to add a message, it would be easier to write on the pictures before you add the lollypops.

Have you ever created a fun and personalized Valentine’s Day card for your kids or do you just buy the box sets from the grocery store?  I don’t think I’ll ever buy a box again because this was so much fun!

 

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LEGO Friends: Love Them or Hate Them?

Alternate title (thanks to my friend Stacy):  I Didn’t Know the Feminist in me was Supposed to Hate Them

My nine year old niece LOVES LEGO’s.  When she comes over here to my house, it’s almost always the first thing she plays with.  Having boys who are also in love with LEGO’s we have LOTS of them with their own dedicated station.  There is always lots of house and family building.  We have many sets that are usually only built “correctly” once, and then just tossed into the community bucket for many more hours of imaginative creating.

It’s all good. Right?

My nieces are also VERY girly.  They like pink, they like dolls, they like to get pedicures with grandma.  This does not make them any less smart than the other girl who would rather play space explorer (and FYI: these girls like to play in the dirt more than my own boys).

So when Christmas came around and I was shopping for my niece, I actually went looking for girly themed LEGO’s.  I was sorely disappointed that there was NONE.  A few Hello Kittie Megablocks, but she already had all of those.  And I remember thinking in the Toys R Us, “Why don’t they make girly LEGO kits?”

Really. I did.

Then, right after Christmas, LEGO announced a new “girly” LEGO Friends line of products and I was PISSED!  But not pissed at them for being pink and girly, I was pissed that they didn’t come out before Christmas because my nieces would LOVE LOVE LOVE them!  I thought they had terrible timing for I would have purchased the cute little pink beauty shop in a heartbeat had they been available.  I decided I would just have to purchase them for the girls at their next birthdays and that was that.

Then, today, like every other day, I was chatting with Cheryl (the mother of two girls) and she said:

She then linked up this blog post:  Letter From 14yo Girl to LEGO and I found something that Jessica Gottleib said that also told me that I must be living in the dark ages.  How backwards am I that I think these LEGO sets are cute?  I must be contributing to the devaluing of girls everywhere.  Perhaps because I live in a house of all boys I am out of touch with the feminist movement?

OR, what is so bad about letting girls be “girly?”  Why can’t the female CEO of some major company like pink and getting pedicures at the spa?  Hell, my youngest son likes pink, does that mean he won’t be able to play football some day?  I think not.

Why can’t we just let kids like what they like?  What is up with all the weird gender stuff lately?  People not telling the world what gender their kids are and going extreme with what toys are proper?  My boys have dolls.  My nieces have RC trucks.  It’s all OKAY.

My nieces are beautiful little girls who love purple and prance around in princess slippers.  They are also tough as nails and generally out-do my boys in traditional “boy” roles.  So I still plan on buying these pretty little LEGO Friends sets for my nieces because they are super cute and the girls will love them.  They will build the flower garden, care for the pets and then probably take the house outside to the mud hole and destroy it playing construction worker.

 

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Inspired

My “home away from home” (so to speak) is over at Eclectic Six Media, a community site I started with my bloggy besties, Cheryl, Heather, KathleenAmanda  and Lucy.  Each week we have a writing topic/prompt/meme (whatever you wanna call it) posted called Monday Mojo.  It’s just a little spark to help the people who participate to think of something to post about.  This weeks topic is Inspiration.

Who inspires you to be a better blogger? Has there been someone who’s mentored you and helped you become the blogger you are today? Is there a website out there that you strive to be like one day? Share your inspirations!

Honestly, I am inspired every single day by many people.  I hang out on Stumble and Pinterest and find inspiration.  Ideas for posts, design ideas and I even come across things I never ever want to be caught dead doing!  With so many blogs in the interwebs, it’s hard NOT to be inspired.

When I was a brand-new blogger, starting out on WordPress.com,  I came across MomDot and I found my first social home.  Trisha and her gang there taught me everything I ever wanted to know, and many things I didn’t know I needed to know.  I set myself up, bought a real domain, moved to a real host and I never looked back.  Because of the community and friendship I built here, I was inspired to try and expand into my own community so I could continue to grow and reach other newbies that I could share my knowledge with.

In case you couldn’t tell, this is photoshopped.  Heather and Cheryl were added since I’ve never actually met them in person.  I got to meet Kathleen and Lucy at BlogHer11.  Amanda isn’t in the picture because she never posts photoshopable photos of herself…perhaps she is even smarter than first thought.  But if we all got together…this is how I imagine we would look.

Today, I am inspired every day by my bloggy besties and the things they accomplish.  Heather is incredibly creative and a smart social media maven.  Cheryl is the funniest and most passionate person I’ve ever known and is a champion for her daughter with cerebral palsy.  Kathleen is amazing raising even more boys than I am and she makes time to have an incredibly successful blog.  Amanda has political and military knowledge coming out her wazoo and is always impressing me.

These are the people I choose to spend my limited free time with.  These are the people who inspire and encourage me when I’m feeling the urge to just throw in the proverbial towel.  They are my mentors and I would be lucky to end up like any one of them.

Now it’s your turn.  Head on over to Monday Mojo and link up your post telling us who inspires you to be a better blogger.

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Wordless Wednesday: I’m Awesome, Too

Day 4: you're cute!This is Day 4 of my Project 365.  I told Gabe:  “You’re a cute kid” and he replied: “and I’m awesome, too.”  I just can’t argue there!

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Starting a Project 365

What is a Project 365?

The simple answer is to “Document a year of your life by taking a photo a day” (365project.org).

After I received my fancy DSLR camera for Christmas last year, I got the brilliant idea to try a 365 project.  I really wanted to learn to use my camera and thought that this project would be a perfect way to do that.  Unfortunately, for me, the act of taking a picture (that didn’t suck) and transferring it to my computer, editing it, uploading it to my blog and to 365project.org and posting to facebook, etc etc got real old real fast.  It just wasn’t an easy task and therefor, quit being fun after about ten days.

This year I made a New Years Resolution to try again.  Only this time, I want need to keep it simple.  I decided I wanted to use the camera that I actually carry with me everywhere I go, my phone (currently an iPhone but next week I get to try the new LG Nitro that supposedly has a fabulous camera!).  Instead of worrying about taking my DSLR with me everywhere to get a picture, I’ll have a camera in my pocket.  And, instead of having to hook up my camera to cords to transfer and edit my photo, I can edit right on my phone (using a few cool photo aps) and upload it directly to my Flickr account.

Easy Peasy.

I pretty much refuse to pay for iPhone aps.  So I’ve downloaded a few free ones that I really enjoy and they will make my project 365 easier to accomplish.  I thought I would share with you what I do.

 

All you have to do is go to the Apple store to see there are literally, thousands of photo editing apps.  SO MUCH GOOD STUFF!  There are probably many many wonderful apps that I would love but do not know about yet, but since I’m poor cheap and don’t like to spend money on things, I’ve limited myself to these four apps.

Adobe Photoshop Express is a powerful tool to have on your phone, and the best part is this one is FREE.  This app lets you adjust contrast, brightness and clarity as well as having a bunch of fun effects and borders.  I think it does a really good job for a free app.

Right now, Big Lens is my favorite editor.  It is not free, but for just one buck I thought I would give it a try.  My favorite part of this app is being able to add shaped bokah effects to my photos and it does a really great job of adding depth of field to a regularly flat photo.  It lets you adjust the aperture and also comes loaded with funky effects (lomo, black and white, flare, etc etc).

Hipstamatic is another paid app and while I love the effects it gives my photos, I don’t like that I have to use it as the camera rather than being able to upload a picture from my gallery.  I think this was the first app I ever paid for and I really don’t use it much.

I LOVE my Instagram.  I have an entire Instagram album that I post to regularly.  This is a free app that has so many fun edits and I love the way it makes my photos look.  When I first decided on a Project 365 I planned on doing it exclusively on Instagram.  The only reason I changed and went with a Flickr album is because I’m getting a new phone next week and unfortunately, there is no Instagram for Android phones (yet…I wish they would hurry up and release that already).

 Flickr for iPhone app is FREE and very easy to use.  I chose to share my photos on Flickr because I could upload them for free, store them in sets and Flickr is pretty user friendly (even my 7 year old has a Flickr).  There are also many WordPress plugins that make for easy cross-sharing to your blog space (if you have one).

 

 

The Awesome Flickr Gallery Plugin for WordPress has made sharing my Project 365 Flickr set to my blog SO EASY.  I was able to designate two different gallery’s (there are unlimited gallery’s to create) so that my latest/daily photo shows up as a sidebar widget and then my full gallery is actually embedded onto a Project 365 page.  This way, visitors to my blog do not actually have to leave my blog to see my Flickr photos!

In summary, I take a photo with my iPhone, do a few edits (because I can’t just leave it alone…but you could if that was your style), upload it to Flickr and I’m done.  It’s posted to Flickr and my Blog.  I hope by making this process fast and simple, I will actually complete my project and have fun doing it.

Have you done a Project 365?  I would love to follow yours if you follow mine!  Also, if you have a lead on some great Android photo editing apps, share those since I’ll be switching!

FYI:  This is a non-sponsored post.  Everything mentioned is really what I use and I’m not gaining anything by writing this post.