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UGH! The Agony of Making the Right Decision

If all goes as planned with my surrogacy, and if (when) I get pregnant next month, then we will be buying a new (used) car for our family.  We have been making d0 with my husbands old 4 passenger Nissan for about 6 months now.  We haven’t gotten another desperately needed car because we didn’t have a down payment and we really did not want to have car payments.  Especially not big car payments that would come with having no down payment.

So here we are now and I’m prematurely shopping for vehicles.  Because, well, I’m a girl and I like to get my hopes up and torture myself by shopping with no money.  LOL

Actually, Let’s call it “research.”  I’m just gathering data so that we can make the right decision when the time comes.

Yeah…that’s what I keep telling myself.

Anyhow, we’ve been talking for a long time about when we get a new car, then we were going to get a big 4 door Ford F150.  Something like this:

07FordF150_01We have an active lifestyle that involves lots of camping.  Here are the great and valid points for getting a truck like this.

  • Big enough for all of us.  For a long time.  Plenty of room for the boys to grow.
  • Room enough for 3 booster seats/car seat combos.
  • Room for camping gear.
  • Can put a quad or other ORV in the truck bed.
  • Large enough to pull a future trailer.

A good, all around truck for my family.

But.

Isn’t there always a “but?”

I used to have a Jeep Wrangler.  It is the favorite car I ever owned and I wish to this day that I still had it.  It was just plain and simple, FUN to drive.  I had mostly written off owning another Jeep for a long time due to them being only 4 passengers and well, we are a 5 person family.  But then they started producing the Jeep Wrangler Unlimited.  A 5 person, 4 door, convertible Jeep Wrangler.  YAY!

jeep-wrangler-unlimitedThis is the vehicle that I want.  Points for the Jeep:

  • Seating for 5.  I checked the specs and there is room along the back seat for 3 boosters.
  • Better gas mileage than the truck
  • Easier to drive (not as big).
  • Less likely that I will back it into another car in a cramped parking lot.
  • Comes in 4×4 so we could easily take it around in the desert.

Now, there are some points against my beloved Jeep that my husband points out.

  • Won’t haul a trailer.  Well, it will pull 3500 pounds.  So it won’t pull a big trailer, but we can’t buy a big trailer right now anyways.  We could, however, pull a smaller flatbed type trailer and put quads and camping gear on that.  It could possibly even pull a tent trailer at some point.
  • Not as big, not as much cargo space.  A truck, we could put quad/camping gear in the bed and not worry about pulling anything.  The Jeep would have to pull a trailer to go camping just about anywhere.

SO, what would you get?  The car that you really really really really really really LOVE and want or the one that is probably a bit more practical for the long term?  Oh, and once the Jeep is paid off, we could always look into getting my husband his truck.  Later.